The Most Important Body Part
My mother used to ask me what is the most important part of the body. Through the years I would take a guess at what I thought was the correct answer. When I was younger, I thought sound was very important to us as humans, so I said, "My ears, Mommy." She said, "No. Many people are deaf. But you keep thinking about it and I will ask you again soon."
Several years passed before she asked me again. Since making my first attempt, I had contemplated the correct answer. So this time I told her, " Mommy, sight is very important to everybody, so it must be our eyes." She looked at me and told me, "You are learning fast, but the answer is not correct because there are so many people who are blind." Stumped again, I continued my quest for knowledge and over the years, Mother asked me a couple more times and always her answer was, "No. But you are getting smarter every year, my child."
Then last year, my grandpa died. Everybody was hurt. Everybody was crying. Even my father cried. I remember that especially because it was only the second time that I saw him cry. My Mom looked at me when it was our turn to say our final good-bye to Grandpa. She asked me, "Do you know the most important body part yet, my dear? "
I was shocked when she asked me this now. I always thought this was a game between her and me. She saw the confusion on my face and told me, "This question is very important. It shows that you have really lived your life. For every body part you gave me in the past, I have told you was wrong and I have given you an example why. But today is the day you need to learn this important lesson. "
She looked down at me as only a mother can. I saw her eyes well up with tears. She said, "My dear, the most important body part is your shoulder." I asked, "Is it because it holds up the head?" She replied, "No, it is because it can hold the head of a friend or a loved one when they cry. Everybody needs a shoulder to cry on sometime in life, my dear. I only hope that you have enough love and friends that you will always have a shoulder to cry on when you need it. "
Then and there I knew the most important body part is not a selfish one. It is sympathetic to the pain of others.
People will forget what you said.....
People will forget what you did.....
But people will NEVER forget how you made them feel.
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I just found this piece in an old folder. I don't know who wrote it or where I got it from.
I think its beautiful and describes how I feel after all the love I received from everyone yesterday!
Thank you to all you wonderful Voxy friends!! ((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))
I appreciate you all very much!
Comments
Wow..this is so beautiful and so true! Thanks for sharing it!
Oh and for the record..I appreciate you too! ((hugs))
it is something so simple, but means SO MUCH!
I'm in tears here...it's mutual, you know that....I wanted to say thank you to you, for keeping up with me, sending me posts and allways having a good word...huggzz and thanks you too!!!
:)
This post is very moving, and your "6 years " one brought me to tears.
These ((((hugs)))) are late but just as soncerely meant.